Gossip Girls

This book wasn’t what I expected. I thought that it would only be an entertaining story about the glamorous lives of young rich teens in the city living like they were 25. I thought I would find it a little shallow and unrealistic in its portrayal of the teens living the high life in New York city and there would be little that teens not living that life would really be able to relate to. I was wrong. I don’t know if it is because I am an older woman reading this book and not a teen, but there was a constant sadness that I couldn’t get away from. Here were these characters who seemed to have everything that a teenager could dream of: money, popularity, perfect looks, great clothes (I didn’t know half of the designers but they sounded impressive). But their lives were still extremely complicated and hard despite all of their advantages. There were so many different mini drama tornadoes through the entire book that I could fill the whole posting with the different issues brought up by Cecily von Zieger, who seems to sound like she may have been similar to the Serena character in her own life. There was love, sex, drugs, alcohol, bulimia, sexuality, divorce, smoking, body image, popularity, and so on. I felt like I was in some kind of crazy soap opera New York where life was never as perfect as it seemed.

I was talking with a friend of mine who has two teenage daughters one morning at work about the Gossip Girl series and television show. She was saying how she would never tell her teenagers not to read it, but she hoped that they never would. I told her that it wasn’t what she thought and that the book would be a great way to open up conversations about a number of issues that her teenagers may be dealing with and that it was actually a very sad book. She said that she could see my point of view, but that she thought that I would be able to see that the lives of the characters in the book were sad because I am older and have more experiences. She said that most teenagers she knows, including her children to a certain extent, would admire the fabulous lives that these teens were living and wouldn’t see the unpleasant things that I was seeing. She feels that are no real strong female characters or celebrities out there for teenagers and a book series like this only reinforces that. She said that there are teenagers who are actually looking up eating disorders on the web because they want to have one. I still tried to argue that she should have her girls read it and then talk to them about the book making sure that some of the messages cleverly weaved between Tiffany’s and vacations in Sun Valley wouldn’t be lost on them. We continued to disagree and discuss until we realized that we were never going to come to an agreement. I will be giving her this book to read on her own on Monday and she said she would at least give it a chance and read it herself but she wouldn’t pass it on to her kids.

While I can understand where she is coming from, I still don’t agree. I think that the snippets of the television program that she has seen may have something to do with it, but I have also only seen snippets so I don’t know. I will be interested to see what other people thought of this book tomorrow in class. I for one was pleasantly surprised.